Difficult People A Practical Guide to Dealing With the 10 Main Types

Copyright © 2013 by Kimberly Mathews. Allrights reserved worldwide. No part ofthis publicationmaybe replicated, redistributed, or givenawayinany form(That`s bad karma) without the prior writtenconsent ofthe author/publisher. Disclaimer This eBook is for informationalpurposes onlyand is not intended to be a substitute for anyprofessionaladvice provided byyour physician, therapist, psychiatrist or anyother related professions. Authors Note The idea behind this eBook, is to provide youwithclear, easyto use techniques and strategies, that youcan implement straight away. Mygoal, was not to make it complicated or over analyze everything, but to keep it simple and to the point. 2 Table of Contents Introduction 10 DifficultTypes OfPeople Explained The Intimidator The Stealth Bomber The Oscar Goes To Person The Bombastic Blowhard The Politician The Yes People The Fake ItTill You Make ItPerson The SilentSleeper The ItWill Never Work Person The Complainer WhatMakes Some People Difficult? Mastering Communication Be AGreatListener Developing Your Inner Power The ArtTo Influencing DifficultPeople How To Handle These DifficultPeople The Intimidator The Stealth Bomber The Oscar Goes To Person The Bombastic Blowhard The Politician The Yes People The Fake ItTill You Make ItPerson The SilentSleeper The ItWill Never Work Person The Complainer Conclusion 3 Introduction It would be fair to say that we`ve allencountered at least one difficult person during the course ofour daily job inour sociallives or evenat home. It`s frustrating enough when these are people that we deal with casually, but even worse when they are members ofour familyor twice as worse ifit`s our boss. Unfortunately, these people can make our lives a little more difficult, put us a little more on edge and make us a little less tolerant. Iftheyare people we can`t get awayfrom, thenit requires a little skillto dealwiththemand come out unscathed. Here are a fewtypes that may be familiarto you? The Intimidator The Complainer The StealthBomber The Politician The Bombastic Blowhard The Fake It TillYouMake It Person These types of people can come from all walks of life, as neighbors, co-workers, and friends. They can intimidate and belittle you... you would prefer not working with them or even talking to them. But, if you can begin to understand themand implement some basic strategies, you stand a good chance of getting what you want done. No longer do you have to feellike you`re being attacked, cornered or manipulated while your frustration builds up. A tactic you might have used in the past, is to walk away. Sometimes, that really is the only thing you can do whenyoutryto be reasonable and nothinggets throughto the difficult person. But, a lot of times there are tactics you can use that will work well. This eBook will discuss the difficult personality types mentioned above, as wellas severalothers. It willgive you explanations for their behavior so that youcanunderstand whytheyact the waytheydo. Youwillbe able to see themina different light. Armed with this understanding and some strategies, you`ll be in a much better position to take charge in these situations and become the master ofyour emotions once and for all. 4 10 Difficult Types Of People Explained Blowhards, loud-mouths, whiners, and pessimists - theycanbe hard to work withand almost impossible to live with. Here are tenofthe most commondifficult types ofpeople. Remember when reading through this list that people tend to revert to these types of behavior when they are feeling threatened, frustrated or angry. In fact, all of us at some stage in our lives have resorted to at least one of these behaviors. The Intimidator This is the type of person who sets out to destroy your perfect day and any work in progress. Even if that person has contributed to the job at hand themselves, they burst forward, guns blazing armed with stinging criticism and harshaccusations. The Intimidator has only negative things to say, especially towards you and your actions, and they believe they are the ultimate solution. Whenhe senses the paralyzingeffect his accusations have had oneveryone, he seizes his chance to take charge and begins barkingorders. However, he quicklyloses interest and moves on, leavingyouto cleanup the mess. The Stealth Bomber Ifyou`re familiar withthe corporate world, youhave more thanlikelyruninto this type ofperson.After working diligently on a project for weeks or even months, you`re finally ready to present your project to the group. Suddenly, like a true StealthBomber he glides inout ofnowhere and proceeds to rip your presentationapart. This person is a master at destroying your credibility with a single sarcastic remark or an evil little snicker. He seems harmless, but he`s trouble indisguise. The Oscar Goes To Person This type of person loves to make mountains out of mole hills, he`s disruptive and quite often hostile, and simply put, he likes to cause a scene. This is a person who throws a tantrum when they get his order wrong at MacDonalds. The Bombastic Blowhard This is the person who always has the answer to a problem, without knowing what the problem is. He seeks advice when he`s stumped, BUT never agrees when it`s given. He hates being corrected and when things do go wrong, he knows who to blame...You The Politician We all know someone like this. He`s the person who won`t give you a straight answer, no matter how serious the situation. It`s a pain trying to meet project deadlines with him, and you wouldn`t even have a yard sale with him, because he won`t make a definite decisiononanything. The Yes People 5 ... - tailieumienphi.vn