For Women Only in the Workplace by Shaunti Feldhan

shaunti feldhahn what you need to know about how men think at work women only For Women Only in the Workplace Published by Multnomah Books 12265 Oracle Boulevard, Suite 200 Colorado Springs, Colorado 80921 Scripture quotations and paraphrases are taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version®. NIV®. Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984 by Biblica Inc. TM Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved worldwide. www. zondervan.com. ISBN 978-1-60142-378-8 ISBN 978-1-60142-395-5 (electronic) Copyright © 2011 by Veritas Enterprises Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying and recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher. Published in the United States by WaterBrook Multnomah, an imprint of the Crown Publishing Group, a division of Random House Inc., New York. Multnomah and its mountain colophon are registered trademarks of Random House Inc. Previously published as The Male Factor by Multnomah Books and Crown Business in 2009. Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data [to come] Printed in the United States of America 2011—First Revised Edition 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Special Sales Most WaterBrook Multnomah books are available at special quantity discounts when purchased in bulk by corporations, organizations, and special-interest groups. Custom imprinting or excerpting can also be done to fit special needs. For information, please e-mail SpecialMarkets@ WaterBrookMultnomah.com or call 1-800-603-7051. Contents Introduction: Men 101 • 1 CHAPTER 1 “It’s Not Personal; It’s Business” • 17 Welcome to Two Different Worlds CHAPTER 2 “She’s Crying—What Do I Do?” • 49 How Men View Emotions at Work CHAPTER 3 “If I Let Down My Guard, the World Will Stop Spinning” • 77 The Hidden Fear That Drives Men at Work CHAPTER 4 “I Can’t Handle It” • 97 The Little Things That Drive Men Crazy CHAPTER 5 “Suck It Up” • 119 Getting It Done No Matter What CHAPTER 6 “I’m Not as Confident as I Look” • 147 Men’s Inner Insecurity and Need for Respect CHAPTER 7 “That Low-Cut Blouse Undercuts Her Career” • 177 Sending the Right Signals and Avoiding the Visual Trap x Contents CHAPTER 8 “The Most Important Thing” • 205 Men’s Top Advice for Women in the Workplace CHAPTER 9 Putting It in Perspective • 219 Counsel from Experienced Christian Women Acknowledgments • 231 Appendix 1: The Survey Methodology • 235 Appendix 2: Emotions and the Male Brain • 243 Discussion Questions • 249 Notes • 263 ... - tailieumienphi.vn